Has your child just taken his first step?
Are you all excited about his first step?
When young children start walking, it is a huge milestone for them.
They seem to feel as thrilled (or probably more) as adults feel when they learn new skills such as swimming, driving or dancing.
How is their thrill evident?
Just by this fact- once having learnt how to walk, they want to walk over and over again.
They fall down.
They get up.
They start walking again.
Many children also love walking up and down the stairs. Not once but countless times!
These activities related to walking can go on for hours on end and can cause the adult in whose care the child is to feel absolutely exhausted.
The adult does not have either the time or the patience to wait on a child who wants to walk without a break. The adult is usually focused on the next task at hand.
Often, the adult would rather just pick the child up and move on to the next task that he needs to do. But the child seems determined to walk. This in turn causes the adult to pick the child up forcefully and the child throws a tantrum.
Have you ever wondered why this is so? Or what you can do if you ever find yourself in this situation?
The first thing to understand is no one teaches the child to walk. So, the child is not walking to make life difficult for the adults or to show that he has learnt something. Rather, it is nature that drives the child towards walking. And the child walks and walks and walks. He never seems tired of it.
As adults, we would be able to appreciate this better when we understand that the child is doing exactly what he needs to do to develop himself at that stage of his life. Then we would sit back, relax and enjoy every step he takes, rather that fret about when he would stop walking so much and so often.
No doubt it requires patience and energy to keep pace with a child who wants to walk continuously. But think about it. It is after all once in a lifetime that you would witness this amazing phenomenon of a child learning to walk. Time will fly and after some years you just might be complaining that your grown up child refuses to walk even a couple of steps. So, why not enjoy this phase while it lasts?
Take time to witness every milestone of your child’s growth and cherish the early years for the wonders that they unfold.
Let us not carry the child who has just learnt to walk.
Let him walk.
Let us not complain about the child who goes up the stairway fifty times or more.
Let him climb up.
It is nature at play.
The child has the right to master his gift.
He says, “I can walk. Please do not lift.”